Resources

8/11/21 •

How to Change Gender on Driver’s License

In all 50 states, transgender individuals are legally allowed to change the gender on their driver’s license. But the process can be challenging. Here are some tips.

August 2019 • Articles & News

Parents are shifting from critics to allies for LGBTQ

Families of gay kids were once seen as the enemy by support groups. That’s changing. It can take parents time to adjust but their support makes all the difference.

02/18/20 • Articles & News

Healthcare Equality Index 2019

Most LGBTQ report discrimination from medical providers. Find inclusive medical resources in this report HRC report listing over 400 facilities in 46 states.

03.01.2018 • Blog

An anonymous letter from a struggling mama

"I still think that I maybe at some point I must have done something wrong. Perhaps it would have made a difference if I had painted her room pink or had her watch more Disney princesses."

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We Are > AIDS

GreaterThan.org provides the best and latest information about HIV prevention, testing, treatment and more. Designed to work across mobile, tablet, laptop or desktop computers, the site is easy-to-navigate with fact-driven content.

January 2018 • Featured

Harris Poll Research: LGBTQ Acceptance Drops

Recent research from a Harris Poll survey shows acceptance of LGBTQ people is slipping and discrimination is increasing for the first time in decades. Read "Accelerating Acceptance 2018".

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Ask the HIV Doc

A popular YouTube series from Greater Than AIDS gives frank, no-nonsense answers to commonly asked questions about HIV. Also available at #AskTheHIVDoc

08.21.2018 •

Back to School – Tips for Parents

I know this feeling of fear and nervousness is common. For parents of lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender students the excitement of a new school year can be accompanied by anxiety and fear.

June 30, 2017 • Articles & News

7 Important Ways to Be a Better LGBTQ Ally

Being an ally of an LGBTQ friend or family member comes with its own set of challenges. How do you empathize, for example, if you can't even begin to relate to what they're going through?

02.11.2020 • Blog

A Valentine for Your LGBTQ Child: Move Beyond “I Love you”

Help your child believe in and build a strong new life. The understanding, communication and support you give helps them dream new dreams.

2/10/20 • Articles & News

CDC Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Health

This Centers for Disease Control site contains information and extensive links for health issues and risk prevention. Contents are segmented by audience (gay, lesbian, youth, etc.). A strong resource for current health info and research.

2/23/2020 •

Cost of Transition

Gender transition involves a variety of medical, social, and legal steps that vary by individual situation and goals. This article provides info on types of treatment (from hormones to surgery), legal steps, possible costs, and links to additional resources.

02.06.2019 • Blog

Teen Dating: Should I tell another parent my child is LGBTQ?

You may not be able to change another parent's mind, but you can model respect and acceptance, for both kids. And your child will be watching every step of the way.

June 2017 • Articles & News

CDC Survey of LGBT Youth Health – 2017

The 2017 update to this CDC annual survey of LGBT youth risks, experiences and health with suggestions for how schools and parents can help.

2015 • Video

Lead With Love

A excellent 35-minute documentary focused on the struggle of parents to accept their child, and the benefits of leading with love. It addresses many parent struggles and questions through the voices of parents, youth and researchers.

10/9/17 • Book

The Gender Book

A gender 101 for everyone, this 90-page fully illustrated book represents countless hours of research, more than 200 questionnaires, and dozens of one-on-one interviews with members of the communities depicted. An excellent introduction for all ages, excellent for family sharing or an introduction to gender.

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How Parents Can Build a Safe and Accepting Relationship With Their LGBTQ Child

As a Strong Family Alliance´s board member Dr. Shailagh Clarke states that parents are a powerful force and an important factor on a children's life.

Articles & News

10 Anti-Gay Myths Debunked

The LGBT community is more targeted by attacks than any other group.This article addresses common myths and slurs with facts and research.

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Glennon Doyle Melton on What She’d Say to Her Son if He Was Gay

Touching and humorous, an essay on bullying that ends with her letter.

09.27.2019 • Blog

Parents and Coming Out of the ‘Second Closet’

Going beyond ‘I love you” means more than love and affection. It means getting in the trenches and trying to help others grow in acceptance and understanding.

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Listening to shame

Shame is an unspoken epidemic, the secret behind many forms of broken behavior. Brené Brown explores what can happen when people confront their shame head-on.

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Understanding the Complexities of Gender: Sam Killermann at TEDxUofIChicago

A humorous but highly informative talk on the genders, snap judgments, identity, and assumptions. Some graphic language.

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44-Episode Southern Coming Out Story

A memoir about coming to terms with being gay and Christian. Start from the beginning if you can, but if you have time for only one episode, make it #29, Lifeboats.

June 2008 • Video

Anyone and Everyone (Documentary)

Parents from across the United States share intimate accounts of struggling with the pain and challenges of their child coming out. From diverse geography, cultures and backgrounds, they reveal common threads in the parent experience.

7/3/2020 • Audio

Jen and Sydney Hatmaker On Being Gay and Loved

Christian author Jen Hatmaker and her gay daughter talk about growing up Christian and gay, the faith struggle Sydney experienced, and where they are now as a family.

11.05.2019 • Blog

How to Have a More Meaningful Holiday

Bring your LGBTQ loved ones home, bring their friends as well, and start building new memories around family and holidays.

10.04.2019 • Articles & NewsBlog

Understanding builds over time

Research finds it takes around 2 years for parents to find it less difficult to accept their LGBTQ child.

Families In Transition Guide

A resource guide for families of transgender youth providing information on family, social, legal, and medical considerations. An excellent primer for parents.

June 2010 • Video

The Power of Vulnerability

In a video viewed over 28 million times, Brown talks about vulnerability and the desire for authenticity. This topic can help parents understand how vulnerable a child is when coming out and that a desire for authenticity may be the child's key motivation.

Oct. 2017 •

LGBTQ College Resource Student Guide

Information and resources for LGBTQ college students. Suggestions on colleges, scholarships, planning and considerations.

8/11/21 • Audio

Queer Freedom: How can we be both held and free?

Glennon Doyle Melton's podcast on wrestling with faith issues, church vs God, and her response to the statement “I disagree with your lifestyle, but I love you anyway.”

09.24.2021 • Blog

Coming out at school

If your child recently came out to you as LGBTQ, you may be wondering who else they told and how they’re dealing with the coming out process. For students who are newly out, going back to school can be an intimidating and confusing time and they’ll need your love and support more than ever.

Feb. 20, 2018 • Articles & News

Dad of 12-year-old transgender child: ‘He’s trying to be his best self’

A father shares his experience and advises "...listen to your kids, honor their feelings and show you respect them."

06.08.2017 • Blog

What Do I Do? Making Choices in Uncharted Territory

After a child comes out, some questions have one solid, certain, no-question-about-it answer.

05.17.2018 • Blog

GuideStar Gold Seal Achieved

We are proud to share with you that we have earned the Gold Seal of Transparency from GuideStar -- the world’s largest source of information on nonprofit organizations.

06.04.2018 • Blog

Hard News: LGBTQ People Feel Increased Discrimination

In recent months my lesbian daughter has commented she felt this growing counterflow to acceptance...I was hoping it wasn't true, but it appears it is.

07.12.2019 • Blog

For Parents During Pride Month

Can Pride Month remind parents of ways to show pride in their own child?

June 24, 2016 • Articles & News

Family Acceptance the Biggest Factor for Positive LGBTQ Outcomes

How families respond when youth come out during adolescence can have a powerful impact on young people’s health and well-being. According to groundbreaking research from the Family Acceptance Project, family support is crucial.

February 2015 • Articles & News

Understanding Issues Facing Transgender Americans

This brief report introduces the major areas in which transgender Americans face legal barriers to fully participating in life and provides a summary of what advocates are doing to work for change.

May 4, 2017 • Articles & News

Letting Go Of My Daughter To Make Way For My Son

When a person transitions, the whole family transitions, they say. Adjusting to a new name, different pronouns, and changing family identity is something we are still getting used to.

July 8, 2017 • Video

Coming Out Then and Now

In Britain, a 78 year old gay man talks with a 13 year old gay boy about their experiences. Their contrasting stories reflect both changes in society and things they personally have in common despite their age difference.

June 20, 2017 • Articles & News

Coming Out as Mormon and Gay

Savannah, 12, made a decision that she was going to come out as lesbian at her Mormon Church during her personal testimony. The article and attached video show her experience.

10/9/17 • Articles & News

OutServe-SLDN

OutServe-SLDN represents the U.S. LGBT military community worldwide to educate the community, provide legal services, provide developmental opportunities, support members and local chapters, communicate effectively, and work towards equality for all.

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So Your Child Just Came Out

If you are a parent whose child just came out, you may be struggling or wondering how to respond. We are parents too and want to help you through this crossroads and find a hopeful path for your family.

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When You Find Loving LGBTQ Allies

All the love you've given away will find its way back to you. Thanks to all who supported NPCOD, thank you for your love messages, that motivate us to keep going! Strong Family Alliance is proud to have real allies.

Sept. 20, 2017 • Articles & News

LGBTQ Students in NYC Face Risks

Bullying and homelessness are far more likely to impact lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and questioning students compared to heterosexual kids, an NYC report shows.

Strong Family Alliance • Video

Providing Loving Support to Your LGBTQ Child – Janet Duke

Janet Duke, the founder of the Strong Family Alliance, shares some thoughts and tips from her experience as a mother of an LGBTQ child.

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How to Become a Better Ally for Transgender People

Jessica Soukup talks about her idea of social transition and actions that need to be taken to be a better and stronger ally for transgender people, from the point of view of a 50-year-old transgender woman.

Aug 2016 • Articles & News

CDC National Study of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual High School Students’ Health

Graphics on key summary points and links to entire report and materials. Results show risks of violence and bullying are generally double that of heterosexual teens.

Articles & News

Legal same-sex marriage tied to fewer suicide tries

Associated Press article from Feb. 2017 concerning reserach at Johns Hopkins’ Bloomberg School of Public Health and published in the Journal of the American Medical Association magazine "Pediatrics"

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How a Community of Faith Can Respond To Its LGBTQ Members

Karen Thompson is a Christian Minister who encourages people to show in words and actions that LGBTQ children are loved by their families and by God.

Articles & News

Sally Field’s impassioned open letter about her gay son

A heartfelt letter about her experiences as the mother of a homosexual son two heterosexual boys. "

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Once a Girl, Always a Boy – Conversation with Author Jo Ivester

Jo Ivester tells us about her son’s Jeremy 20-year process of acceptance, coming out and transformation.

Articles & News

What to Do When Your Child Says: “I’m Gay!”

Important advice for parents from a psychologist and researcher.

Articles & News

Talking with Your High School Teen About Identity

Whether your teen is coming out or just curious, they’re likely to have many questions about LGBTQ issues. Here are definitions, information and tips for talking with your teen about identity.

Articles & News

Ideas on what to say to your child when they come out

Episode from a blog/podcast series about a Christian man coming to terms with being gay. He reflects on the difficulty of coming out, family reactions and what words can mean in saving lives.

Articles & News

Here’s What We Know About the Science of Sexual Orientation

A painful look at the struggle of coming out to parents, the struggle to speak and the sometimes struggle to survive rejection. Ends with suggestions to parents on how to react in love.

Articles & News

An Open Letter to My Beloved Church

Wenger was removed as a pastor for performing the marriage of his gay son. He offers us all a lesson in Christian love of both family and the church.

Articles & News

My Response to A Conservative Christian: Unconditional Love

A counselor with a practice that specializes in gender, sexuality & relationships give an essay response to a letter.

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Audio/photo blog interviewing teens about their coming out experience.

This New York Times audio / video blog let's teens tell their own stories about coming out through a combination of essays and video. The stories provide a touching insight to the teen LGBTQ experience, fears, and struggles.

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A Commencement Address Do-Over

"I thought God wanted to use me to show gay people how to be straight. Instead, God used gay people to show me how to be Christian." Rachel Held Evans' commencement address do-over.

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Trans 101 – The Basics

Short tutorial about gender diversity, language, meanings and trans concerns.

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A Message from the Elder Team of Denver Community Chuch

Commentary from an evangelical church that decided to reach out and embrace the LGBTQ community

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The Gay Debate: The Bible and Homosexuality

A gay Chistian man describes his deep love of and research into the Bible, what it

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Texas mom’s faith is tested by her child’s transgender journey

A mom talks about her struggle as a Christian to accept her transgender daughter.

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11 Things Christians Need to Stop Saying to LBGT People

Essay on terms Christians misuse about LGBT such as choice, love the sinner hate the sin, etc.

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Transgender & Christian

A personal blog focused on help ingtrans Christians find hope at the intersection of their identity and their faith through the study of biblical texts, and through life-giving conversation.

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Monitoring Your Teens Activities: What Parents Should Know

Good parenting practices apply when your child is LGBT as well. Here are suggestions for monitoring any teen youth.

Articles & News

“Reconciling” – A Sermon on Matthew 5:21-37

Hartke writes on the intersection of faith and sexuality and seeks to understand, interpret, and share parts of the Bible that relate to gender identity and the lives of transgender individuals.

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Leading Conversations on LGBT & Christianity

A writer and speaker advocating for change in how faith communities engage with LGBT people, Mathias Roberts hosts podcasts from a wide variety of speakers on topics of faith and belief.

11.26.2017 • Blog

A Sad Reality on Strong Family Alliance Press Coverage

It's hard to celebrate press coverage when it is precipitated by tragedy.

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Generous Orthodoxy

“Generous Orthodoxy” is the story of Chester Wenger, a 98-year-old Mennonite minister who lost his pastorate when he performed a marriage for his gay son. Wenger offers all of us a master class in the art of dissent.

Articles & News

Out, Safe and Respected

A Guide to LGBTQ youth in schools for educators and parents. How to protect your child and work to make your school safe with specific steps to develop healthy, nurturing school environments for LGBTQ students.

06.06.2017 • Blog

Why This Website?

We hope this website can reach every community and any parent searching online in a sleepless night.

11/21/2017 • Articles & News

LGBTQ Americans Report Harassment & Violence

Over half of LGBTQ Americans experience violence, threats or harassment. 2017 poll results from NPR, the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation and the Harvard T.H. Chan School of Public Health.

06.07.2017 • Blog

It’s Hard

My journey was one revelation after another about thoughts and beliefs I never questioned before.

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Leading with Love for a Child Coming Out

To avoid rejection takes a far more difficult goal – changing actions and eventually minds.

02.22.2018 • Blog

Strong Family Alliance Gives Me Hope

When we founded a nonprofit to help save LGBTQ lives and preserve their families, it gave me a feeling so entirely different and yet so valuable - HOPE.