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Thank you for sharing your thoughts and advice on this common and delicate situation. It’s important to support and affirm our LGBTQ+ children, especially when they may face hurtful comments from family members who may not understand or accept their identity.
I agree that there are several things parents can do to help their child feel loved and affirmed, even in the face of hurtful comments. It’s important to create a safe and supportive environment for our children, where they can be themselves without fear of judgment or discrimination.
Speaking up in a supportive way without outing our child is a great idea, as it can help shift the conversation and show our child that they are not alone. Additionally, having a private conversation with our child about the possibility of hearing hurtful comments can help prepare them and give them tools to cope with the situation.
It’s also important to remind our child that these comments likely stem from long-held beliefs and may not have anything to do with their worth as an individual. We can reinforce our love and support for our child, and let them know that we are always here to listen and support them.
Overall, navigating family dynamics can be difficult, but by prioritizing our child’s well-being and creating a supportive environment, we can help them thrive and feel loved for who they are.